Most of Your Efforts are Wasted. Here’s the Framework to Fix It.
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During the first week of this semester I had a miserable experience at a party.
During the first week of this semester I had a miserable experience at a party. It felt like everyone but me was enjoying themselves and I sensed everyone’s attention was on my awkward body language. It got so bad. I wrote in my journal that I was “questioning why people want to be friends with me or what they liked about me.” I then tried something socially abnormal. After getting over myself, I wrote a reflection on the party: What happened? Why did it happen? What will I do differently next time? The next party I went to, I remembered my reflection, re-read what went wrong, and…
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