finding a partner - by nancy - general zuo's chicken

i'm not sure how to approach this anymore

the pressure feels so on these days. my mom is like 'nancy have you found a guy yet' and pushes me to go down my list of guy friends to evaluate which is the best option relationship-wise. my friends who recently graduated are telling me to find someone in university since it'll be much harder later. and they're probably right. in high school my mom was pretty forceful, and set me up on blind dates occasionally. one time she didn't tell me it was a blind date until we got to the restaurant and when we got there she pretended to be 'surprised' to bump into them. i had dinner with him and…

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